Do you know what I can't stand?
When I make a decision and the next day I've changed my mind and don't do it.
Everything seems to be going on as usual and then a doubt slips in. It questions me and I begin to self-assess. I begin to feel the weight of responsibilities, guilt, fears, and even resistance from others. I find myself feeling frustrated and my usual way to deal with frustration is self-abdication. And Boom! I back out of my decision.
I really hate that, because soon after I start feeling sad, disappointed and regretful.
So if I really want to get past this hangup in my life, I will have to figure out a plan and commit to it.
What's the Plan?
- Picture the outcome.
- Fall in love with the feeling of having the outcome.
- Feel it deep inside of me. Hold onto it.
- Check my gear.
- Brace myself with the knowledge of my experience (or trust my competence, if that is all I have).
- Let go and do it.